Eros Club
A monthly membership for sexual healing and erotic liberation.
Eros Club welcomes all women and members of the LGBTQIA+ Community with open arms. You must be 18 years of age or older. Cisgendered, heterosexual men are not welcome into the space at this time.
When you join Eros Club, you will gain access to:
- Monthly workshops for erotic liberation
- Self paced courses for sexual healing
- Guided meditations and embodiment practices
- The support of a loving, non-judgmental community
- The Eros Club group chat with juicy daily discussions
- Monthly live rituals for community healing and slutty good fun!
We are done healing through pain. It is time to heal through pleasure. We are done healing in isolation. It is time to heal in playful, joyful community.
This is the year you fall madly in love with yourself, take your sexual power back, and finally live a life where you feel truly, wildly, electrically alive. Fuck the patriarchy. Together, we will thrive in the midst of chaos.
Welcome to the Slumber Party
The days of healing through pain are over. We are now healing in silly, slutty community through connection and through pleasure.
Eros Club is a monthly membership where we heal our relationship to pleasure and cultivate deeply fulfilling, wildly erotic lives. And we do it all in joyful, loving community.
We’re doing nervous system healing, we're doing boundary work, we're upleveling our self worth and stepping into our true authentic personal power.
But I'm also gonna teach you how to cultivate a self pleasure practice that is so powerful it will change your life. No matter what chaos unfolds in the world at large, you will know how to source pleasure and nourishment and aliveness from within yourself. I will empower you with the tools you need to source your own well being (and ecstasy) from the inside, out.
I'm teaching you the practical, tangible skills to develop a wildly erotic relationship to yourself and to life itself. I'm also teaching you how to make love to yourself in such a way that men become optional.
The best part? The community group chat feels like some one brought Celsiuses to the slumber party because we're up until 5 in the morning yapping and giggling.
We're chit chatting, we're sharing stories, we're sharing playlists, we're sharing sexy secrets, we're comforting each other through our sexual struggles and we're also cheering someone on when they had a hot hook up last night. We are here to support one another in our highs and our lows. Through comfort and through celebration. This is what sexual healing and liberation looks like in community.
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Meet Your Guide
My name is Amber Eros and I do sexual healing and erotic liberation work. I have been studying and working within the field of trauma healing for the past 15 years. I have studied countless modalities and learned from dozens of beautiful mentors. And I have spent the past 5 years merging the worlds of trauma healing and sacred sexuality through one-on-one coaching and group facilitation.
And what I have learned is that:
Sexual liberation is a path to profound healing in every area of your life.
I don’t do this work because I’m crazy about sex. I do this work because I am wildly passionate, and deeply devoted to your healing.
I believe that pleasure (and learning how to give your own body big, beautiful experiences of pleasure) is truly medicinal.
I believe that sexual liberation can be a pathway to:
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True self love (not just the theory, but the embodied practice of it)
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Deep self worth (not just in theory, but the embodied practice of it)
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Profound personal power (not just in theory, but the embodied practice of it)
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A life in which you actually feel ALIVE (not just in theory, but the embodied practice of it)
You are worthy of this.
Eros Club is for you if any of the following apply:
You're ready to truly sexually thrive.
If you feel sexually lost, confused, fearful, ashamed, or just like "something is missing", I see you. You are not alone. It is absolutely possible for you to sexually thrive.
It is absolutely possible for you to have soul-nourishing, mind-blowing, multi-orgasmic sex from a place of safety, self-love and personal empowerment. You just need support.
If embarking on a sexual thriving journey feels a little scary, that's completely normal. We will move slowly and you will be supported every step of way.
You're ready to fall back in love with your life.
If you feel dull, depressed, anxious or just little bit lost in life, I see you. You are not alone. If you feel disconnected from your life force energy and are yearning to reconnect with the warm, electric pulse of aliveness, I see you.
If you miss your sense of child-like wonder and have the aching feeling that there must be more to life, I see you. And I am here to tell you that there is so much more to life. Let's reconnect you to your joyful spark so that you can begin having fun again.
You're ready for loving, goofy community.
Community, in and of itself, is so wildly, deliciously healing. And while there can be such value in periods of isolation, there is also so much healing that can only be done through connection.
Community is magic. And in Eros Club we will be harnessing the beauty of silly, vulnerable, goofy, beauty messy and exquisitely imperfect connection.
You are so worthy of being seen, or being understood, of being heard, of being celebrated, and of being supported.
The secret truth that has been hidden from us for thousands of years?
Pleasure is medicine. Pleasure has the power to heal us.
Inside of Eros club we are exploring pleasure in all of its forms and facets:
🪩 Pleasure as a tool for our mental and emotional health
🪩 Pleasure as a tool for resilience and wellbeing during times of collective chaos
🪩 Pleasure as a tool for nervous system regulation.
🪩 Pleasure as a tool for self love
🪩 Pleasure as a tool for personal empowerment
🪩 Pleasure as a path to liberation
🪩 Pleasure as a tool for cultivating a deeply meaning and fulfilling life.
🪩 Pleasure as a tool or feeling truly, wildly ALIVE 🔥
Pleasure comes in so many different forms. And we will be exploring them all inside of Eros Club.
Of course there is Sexual pleasure. Orgasmic pleasure. Multi orgasmic pleasure.
But there is also sensual pleasure...
The pleasure of walking through nature, the pleasure of eating delicious foods, the pleasure of art, the pleasure of a warm bath or a soothing massage. The pleasure of the warm sun on your skin.
One of my favorite pleasures is the pleasure of safety. The pleasure of rest. The pleasure of relaxation.
The pleasure of self love
The pleasure of knowing your worth
The pleasure of play
The pleasure of community
The pleasure of connection
The pleasure of being seen and valued and deeply understood
The pleasure of living your life intentionally and on purpose in ways that feel nourishing for you
This is what Eros Club is all about.
So how does this work?
In order to explore the full range of pleasure we will be moving through Eros Club in 5 distinct stages over the course of the upcoming months.
These 5 stages build upon one another so that you can slooooowly expand your nervous system’s capacity for pleasure.
Eros Club is slow and gentle and you can move through it at your own divine pace.
The 5 stages are:
Stage 1: Safety
The single most important ingredient in erotic thriving is safety. Everything we do inside of Eros Club is built on a foundation of safety. You deserve to feel deeply safe inside of yourself. You deserve to know how to source safety from within you. You deserve to experience your own body as a safe haven that you can return to at any time, for rest and for solace from an unsafe world.
You deserve to know how to nourish yourself, from the inside out. When you feel safe, your pleasure will effortlessly blossom.
Inside of Eros Club, you will learn practical skills for regulating your nervous system and experiencing the euphoria of embodied safety.
Stage 2: Power
Once you feel safe within yourself, the next stage is truly claiming your power. Orgasmic bliss is beautiful. But orgasmic bliss from a place of authentic self love, self worth and personal power is divine, and it is your birth right.
Together, in community, we will be shedding the toxic, culturally conditioned narratives that rob us of our power. Then we will practice embodying new, life-affirming ways of empowered living. You've put up with enough shit. You deserve to know your immeasurable worth. You deserve to fall madly in love with yourself. You deserve to claim your power, in sex and in every area of your life.
Stage 3: Sensuality
Once you are living from a place of embodied safety and personal power, it is time to play! Often, jumping into sexual practices can feel like too much too fast. A beautiful way to expand our capacity for pleasure, in a way that feels safe and nourishing for our nervous systems, is to begin with exploring sensual pleasure.
A sensual pleasure practice can be an exquisite source of self love, nervous system regulation, and nourishment for our mental and emotional wellbeing. Sensual pleasure can open us up to the vibrant eros of life itself and can be a source for profound healing. I will be offering you dozens of guided practices for you to play and explore.
Stage 4: Sexuality
Once you feel cozy and comfortable with sensual pleasure, I will invite you to begin exploring sexual pleasure.
One of the most profoundly life changing things you can do for your sexual thriving is to cultivate a safe, loving, empowered self pleasure practice. If this feels a little scary, don't worry! I will be gently guiding you every step of the way.
Stage 5: Ecstasy
Now its time to skyrocket your pleasure! Once, you have learned the foundations of sensual and sexual pleasure, I will be teaching you advanced techniques for orgasmic expansion and full-bodied bliss. There is so much glorious magic to explore.
I will also be teaching you new, revolutionary frameworks for more joyous, empowered partnered sex.
What does this practically look like?
💗 Guided Nervous System Regulation practices to cultivate embodied safety.
When it comes to pleasure, the #1 key is safety. With over 15 years of experience in trauma healing, I’ll be teaching you potent, somatic techniques for stress release and embodied safety.
You deserve to feel safe within yourself, safe within your body, safe in the present moment and safe in your experiences of pleasure.
🔥 Guided Somatic Rituals for getting to your next level of self love, self worth and personal power.
Orgasmic pleasure is beautiful. But orgasmic pleasure from a place of deep self love, self worth and personal power are your divine birth right.
You deserve to feel empowered in every facet of your life. I’ll show you the practical tools for how to do actually get there.
🌹 Guided Sensual and Erotic Pleasure Practices to rewire your nervous system towards more expansive pleasure.
Your pleasure is elastic. With practice, you can experience infinite levels of full bodied pleasure. We will be exploring so many different varieties of erotic, sensual and sexual pleasure so that you can find a path to pleasure that feels truly aligned for you. If exploring pleasure feels a little scary, please know that we will take this journey slow. I’ll be guiding your very step of the way.
You are worthy of pleasure that feels, safe, chosen and wildly life-affirming.
🥳 The loving support of a joyful, non-judgmental community holding you through your challenges and celebrating you in your breakthroughs.
One of the best parts of Eros Club is the group chat where we will share our experiences, share our playlists, and share what is bringing us joy.
You deserve to be seen, understood, celebrated and supported.
🦋 Self Paced Courses and Live Monthly Rituals so that you can evolve in community and at your own divine pace in the learning style that most supports YOU.
Each month I will lead a live ritual in which we dive deeper into that month’s topic. The potent energy of live collective experiences is just unmatched.
I can’t wait to see what magic we create together!
A little bit about my own personal healing journey...
Some may assume that I do sexual healing work because I was born some sort of magical, sexually empowered, effortlessly orgasmic angel. This could not be further from the truth.
I do this work because I lived so much of my life struggling with my sexual well being. I was having sex from a place of deep unworthiness and self loathing. I was having sex based off of what I had learned in television and movies and music and porn. I was performing. I was having sex to earn love. I was having sex to prove my worth. I was having sex for other’s pleasure instead of my own. I was deeply disempowered. I was sexually active for six years before I began to feel any physical pleasure at all. I felt disconnected from my body and myself. I felt numb.
I know what it is like to feel sexually lost. And I also know what it is like to sexually heal. And it changed my entire life in ways I never expected.
Through my own sexual healing journey, I learned, for the first time in my life, how to really love myself. I learned how to be present with myself. I learned how to give myself experiences of bliss in ways that were really healthy. I learned how to care for myself. I learned how to nourish myself. I learned how to honor my desires, communicate my needs and enforce my boundaries. I learned how powerful I am. I learned how worthy I am.
The most beautiful gift that I received is that I learned how to feel alive. Like, really, really alive. As someone who lived with symptoms of depression from early childhood, this meant everything to me.
For most of my life, I felt like I was a fish in a fish bowl, looking out on the world but not able to touch it. Sacred sexuality practices turned my life from sepia tone to vivid color. My life force energy flooded back into my body in ways that still bring me tears of gratitude to this day. Pleasure taught me about the joy of being alive and that I am worthy of that joy.
Throughout my life, I have had the privilege of engaging in so many different modalities of healing. And each one of them played a sacred role in my journey. But above all, pleasure healed me.
Of course, I still experience pain in my life. But my pleasure practices empower me to move through the challenges of life with greater nervous system regulation and far more ease.
Nowadays, I live a multi-orgasmic life. The sex that I have with my partner is deeply fulfilling and truly soul nourishing for me. But most importantly, I have healed my relationship to myself and to life itself. My relationship to life is both intimate and erotic. I feel so alive and to me, this is the ultimate gift.
I offer this work from a deeply humbled place. I am intimately familiar with every facet of the struggle because I have lived it. And as a result, I will never judge you for what you are experiencing.
I hold space from a place of tender love and compassion. You are so worthy of bliss. And I am so excited to witness you blossom and unfold in your beautiful evolution.
